I love to talk at people. I love, love, love to talk at people about a special interest.

(Don’t worry. I’ve also taught myself how to stop talking.)

Reality is the predominant special interest of my lifetime. I absolutely love revealing delusions, misperceptions, and false beliefs to see reality more fully.

Reality, it turns out, is the only place I get to live.

I’d like nothing more than to share with you what I’ve learned.  

They say trauma happens in relationships and so healing must happen in relationships, but I’ve done my most profound and transformative healing work on my own.

They say Self is calm and patient, but my Self is Autistic, ADHD and housed in a traumatized body and nervous system that is always braced and often impatient.

They say therapists are not supposed to self-disclose, but my story is my work, and the greatest offering I have for the world.

They say a lot of things.

Only some of them are true.

I would love to support you in whatever you are questioning.

Black cat sitting in meditation pose on grass under a rainbow with stars and flowers. Text above reads: “Today I am letting go of things and people that make me feel like shit.”

My interest-driven mind has gained me a lot of knowledge in subjects like: Autism & ADHD, AuDHD and IFS, IFS and CPTSD, healing incest and childhood sexual abuse, unmasking, AuDHD pleasure, healing from emotional abuse, healing from narcissistic abuse, grief, embodiment, mindfulness and compassion.

A wide-eyed black cat wields a sword triumphantly, standing in front of a rainbow watercolor banner that says, “NO regrets. No Mistakes. ONLY silly little Side Quests.” The background sparkles with whimsical stars and diamonds.

But the most delectable topic for me is the truth. It drives everything I do. It makes for grueling labor sometimes, but nothing else lights me up the same.

If you are a therapist, coach, healing professional, leader, educator, or creative professional, I invite you to reap the benefits of my hard work.

My rate for consulting services is $150 for 55 minutes and I use Zoom or Doxy, depending on what’s easiest for you.

Or write to me directly at info@staceyplate.com

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